I’m a guy and I agree. If one of my homegirls ask about a dude, I let ‘em know. If he a good-looking dude, I’ma say “yeah, he a good-looking dude” and if I feel like the nigga ugly I’ma say “naw, that nigga ugly as fuck.” I know I’m not an ugly guy and I’m not gay so even when a gay guy says “you’re cute” or “boy, you fine” the shit is flattering. Real niggas got bigger shit to deal with such as graduating school. Black men need to stop being so confined in their masculinity to where they can’t give their “brotha” a compliment.
I need someone who can distract me from bad vibes.